Look at what my super cute workmate emailed into an agony aunt collum *:-)
[and the dream was about me!!!]
If you dream about about someone at work should you tell them about it?
Obviously if the telling could result in a sexual harassment complaint due to content then I would definitely bite my lip and keep the juicy details to myself.
But the other day I dreamt about a girl at work who is in her early twenties and single - but in the dream she was married and 37 - pretty tame really
I honestly would think it quite funny if someone dreamt about me but as soon as started to tell the person it all sounded all wrong -
Hey I dreamt about you last night….
Oh no it wasn't like that - you were 37..
No no I don't think you look 15yrs older than you actually are really…
Where do you draw line about what you say to people?
When could your actions and words be seen as being overly personal in a work setting - do people appreciate this - is it refreshingly honest or just downright creepy?
I am guilty of crossing this line all the time - am I a creep?
I am a girl and thought I could get away with more loose talk but I have noted, on several occasions - looks of repulsion or shock - so maybe this is a sexist attitude on my part.
Please help me before I get punched in the face, or fired. Continue...